Don’t Ignore The Truth In Your Relationship.

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Pay attention to what is done, not what is said.  People will show you exactly who they are by their actions.  Most of us know this, but when it comes to accepting this simple rule, it’s amazing how many people ignore it.

When your partner says, “I love you and I want to be with you” but every evening he has plans to do other things that do not include you, then you have to accept, your not a priority and his definition of love does not mean being together.

If your dating someone who has to see an ex because kids are involved.  He enjoys visiting them and does it frequently. His actions are showing you where he wants to be, even if he denies it.  If this is a continued argument and you are tired, then you have to give him an alternative.  Have the kids visit with him while you are present.  

If that is not acceptable then you have to accept the direction he is moving in and focus on making,”you” happy.  It’s were he wants to be and saying he is doing it for his kids may not be the whole truth.  Continue to pay attention and follow his actions not his words.

If you have a person who says, I will never do it again! And, the action takes place over and over,  again. Understand it is more likely it will take place than not. Don’t fool yourself.

If you see your future husband has a lot of things he wants to accomplish and he talks about it all the time but you don’t see him moving in the direction he keeps talking about.

Pay attention to what direction he is moving in because that is what your real life will be like when you get married.

I think everyone knows or has heard about someone dating a married man who is in the process of   getting a divorce.  3 years later and he is still telling you how the paperwork is being worked out and it won’t be much longer. Remember,  if you are with a man like this, you are the only one wasting your youth and life.  (Also hurting another women) 

Waiting on someone who clearly is doing the  opposite of what he is saying, only brings sadness and chaos to your life.

None of the stories above may apply to you, but the meaning behind the stories may. Make your life easier by seeing the truth. Follow what they do, not what they say!

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