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Don’t Ignore The Truth In Your Relationship.

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Pay attention to what is done, not what is said.  People will show you exactly who they are by their actions.  Most of us know this, but when it comes to accepting this simple rule, it’s amazing how many people ignore it.

When your partner says, “I love you and I want to be with you” but every evening he has plans to do other things that do not include you, then you have to accept, your not a priority and his definition of love does not mean being together.

If your dating someone who has to see an ex because kids are involved.  He enjoys visiting them and does it frequently. His actions are showing you where he wants to be, even if he denies it.  If this is a continued argument and you are tired, then you have to give him an alternative.  Have the kids visit with him while you are present.  

If that is not acceptable then you have to accept the direction he is moving in and focus on making,”you” happy.  It’s were he wants to be and saying he is doing it for his kids may not be the whole truth.  Continue to pay attention and follow his actions not his words.

If you have a person who says, I will never do it again! And, the action takes place over and over,  again. Understand it is more likely it will take place than not. Don’t fool yourself.

If you see your future husband has a lot of things he wants to accomplish and he talks about it all the time but you don’t see him moving in the direction he keeps talking about.

Pay attention to what direction he is moving in because that is what your real life will be like when you get married.

I think everyone knows or has heard about someone dating a married man who is in the process of   getting a divorce.  3 years later and he is still telling you how the paperwork is being worked out and it won’t be much longer. Remember,  if you are with a man like this, you are the only one wasting your youth and life.  (Also hurting another women) 

Waiting on someone who clearly is doing the  opposite of what he is saying, only brings sadness and chaos to your life.

None of the stories above may apply to you, but the meaning behind the stories may. Make your life easier by seeing the truth. Follow what they do, not what they say!

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How To Make a Relationship Work...

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If you are in a short or long term relationship and you notice more and more that your partner doesn’t listen to you when you speak. It doesn’t even matter what the topic is, they just nod their heads as though they are listening.  You look up at them and it’s clear they are not listening; some times you even ask them to repeat what you said to see if they heard you and they get mad at you as though you’ve done something wrong.

How frustrating is that! Most relationships come together because there is a connection. There is time and effort spent together which make both parties feel special, “paid attention too”.  So you want to be with that person because you feel good with that person.

Then as time goes by, one partner starts paying less attention. The time spent together is less, the effort spent to make each other feel good is not as important. It really makes no sense that we do that in our relationships because we end up having to do it all over again  in a new relationship and the cycle continues. If we don’t get what needs to be done to nourish a relationship, the mistakes are repeated. If we take the time to put the effort in then it’s less likely that the relationship will end.

If the issues has to do with,”what is being said” when the conversations takes place then that needs to be adjusted.  If the conversations taking place makes a person tune out , because it’s about problems, then only do those conversations at specific times. Try to set aside time that you discuss problems and solve issues. Problems and issues don’t have to be discussed every single night, all night, which is what some people do.  

When you want to have an intimate, fun time with your partner, you keep the conversation neutral, don’t talk about things you know will get each other upset. No complaining.  Have those conversations that make the other person feel good, and only you know what that is!

We all have stressful times and some last longer than others but coming together when times are difficult makes a couple stronger and appreciate each other. Best way to go through a difficult time is with a partner that has your back and will help you have some peace while the storm is hitting. 

So make sure the conversations that take place makes your partner want to listen to you even when times are hard.

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