Women in Eyes of Allah - Dr Harlina (Twins Of Faith 2011, PICC)

"Submission to Allah is our focus. Women never submit to men. You don't belong to your husband. You don't wear hijab because of men. If you do, then you are not doing it right. You can have the worst man as your husband (think Asiah & Firaun) OR have no husband (think Maryam), you still can be the best woman in the eyes of Allah. OR you can have the best man as your husband (think the wife of Prophet Lut a.s and Nuh a.s), and you still end up so screwed. So your worth is not defined by men. Men is just your ticket to Jannah.

But although u don't need a man to attain Jannah, and you don't need a man to be the best and reach your maximum potential, don't close your heart to man. Allah has promised for every toyyibat, He will send a toyyibin. SO pray and believe He will grant you the toyyibin"